Today’s Brilliance from Deb Hirschhorn
Not every marriage is happy. You may ask, how could this person who makes you miserable be your soulmate? And my answer is that you're asking the wrong question. Just like the way to be happy in this world is not to sit back and wait for goodness but to search for it and then see it when it's in front of you, the way to find happiness in your marriage is to become your spouse's soulmate. The potential is there already. So the real question is: How do I see a soulmate in a person that right now I'm feeling…